I found out I have Herpes in May of 2009. It was devistating and I fell into Hermit status and cried for days, but after that I needed a new approach cause this HSV was going to be in my life everyday-even if I didnt want it to be...I made myself think positive ALL DAY one day and it helped. Even when I was feeling down I had to think of something else. So if you need any positive things to think about-I'm Here! This Too Shall Pass has been my motto since earlier in life and I could not have needed it at a better time! I have had boyfriends that didnt have this-and still don't-so if you need any tips on telling someone, I can give ya some :)