So I've come to terms about having herpes.. well.. thats a lie.. not really. I found out on 11/10/09. I cried, as most people would. i felt my life was over. After doing research i found this isnt true. I guess I'll never know who gave it to me, which is really hard for me to understand. I've have many self respect issues and now having herpes is going to help me gain back the respect I have and be with people who love me for me and not just for sex. So if anyone out there that have had this for along time want to give me some advice im all ears.